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Expert Guidance for Alienated Parents
 
Workbook
 
Table of Contents
 
Manifest Your Future..........................................................  1    
      Developing A ‘Manifesto’....................................................  1    
      The 20 Issues of PA.. ...................................................... 16    
      Know What Stage Of Alienation You’re Experiencing............ 16    
      Mild Stage –Yellow........................................................... 19    
      Moderate Stage – Orange.................................................. 33    
      Severe Stage – Red.......................................................... .57
      How Could Someone Do This?............................................71    
Managing Yourself & Your Emotions...................................75
      Anger...............................................................................75      
      Anger Quiz........................................................................76      
      What is Anger?..................................................................81     
      The Price of Anger.............................................................85    
      15 Ways to Keep Anger From Impacting Your Case...............97    
      Shame& Guilt...................................................................101    
      Guilt & Shame Exercise......................................................104
Parenting............................................................................110     
      A Parenting Plan...............................................................110    
      41 Points A Parenting Plan Should Address..........................111    
      9 Super Parenting Skills.....................................................123    
      Is Your Anger Affecting Your Children?...............................131
     Consistency.......................................................................135     
     Consistency Exercise...........................................................135
Dealing with The Alienator................................................138   
      9 Guidelines For Managing Impossible People......................140    
      Identify Their Fears...........................................................142       
      Boundaries.......................................................................143
Alienation in the Courts......................................................145    
      When One Former Spouse Has A Relationship......................147    
      Educate Yourself About Local County Rules..........................148    
      12 Elements of A Request For Rule To Show Cause...............149    
      Order of Protection............................................................153    
      Communicating With Officers of the Court. ..........................154    
      15 Tips For Presenting Yourself Well in Court.......................155
Be An Activist......................................................................157
Further Reading..................................................................160
Other Helpful Resources.....................................................161
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Audio Track 1:
  • What is alienation?
  • The target parent
  • The alienator
  • Why is it such a problem?
  • The way alienation develops
  • Where you are in the continuum from mild to severe
  • How alienators interfere with the parent-child relationship
  • The target parent is the enemy
 
 
Audio Track 2:
  • A child's biggest fear is that they are unwanted, unloved
  • How do you parent during the ongoing strife of an alienation situation
  • Minimize the use of blame, accusation, and negative finger-pointing language
  • Anger is toxic and dangerous
  • Reframing technique
  • Guilt and shame associated with the parental alienation experience.
  • Taking the courage to untangle the guilt
  • A good shared parenting plan
  • Who's in control of the situation
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Audio Track 3:
  • How to deal with the alienator
  • You can't change the other person
  • Separating from the other person's life
  • Instinct to counterattack
  • Do it for the sake of your kids
  • Don't take it personally
  • Their real problem is somewhere deep inside that you can't fix
  • Firm boundaries
  • Be as businesslike with your ex as possible
  • You can't control what your ex says or does
  • You can only take charge of your own response
 
 
Audio Track 4:
  • The ex is using the family court system against them.
  • The best plan is a shared parenting plan
  • People make change
  • File a complaint with the court when there is a violation of the child custody agreement
  • Restraining order or order of protection
  • Judges and courts still do their best
  • Such conflicts are in the best financial interest of any smart lawyer
  • How to present yourself in court
  • Don’t let 'the system’ destroy your hope
  • When do you give up……never
  • You still have a life to live
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Bonus Audio Track:
The Amazing Power Of Relaxation
To solve any issue with hypnosis we look at the nature of the problem for clues as to how to resolve it. In the case of alienation the first most obvious layer of the issue is feeling bad…being in emotional pain as a result of feeling rejected, exiled, from what you thought was your life.
 
 
An urgent issue facing most alienated parents is this ‘feeling bad’ issue; alternately feeling anger and shame is not a good place to make decisions from. So the first thing healing parental alienation hypnosis addresses is this ‘inner stress.’ Through deep relaxation.
 
 
This bonus track uses deep relaxation to drain away all the cumulative physical and emotional stress that the alienation situation has generated. This is what the bonus track is designed to accomplish within you.
 
 
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